12 signs that this person wants something serious with you.
Our body language and actions speak much louder than words.
It is well said that 'actions speak louder than a thousand words', and it is very wise in this regard. and very wise it is in this regard, because words, despite having a great impact on us, do not represent a guarantee of something concrete.
Of course, when someone 'gives you his word' it is a promise to be fulfilled, but... how can we be completely sure of that? We can't. That is why words must always be accompanied by actions that back them up and give faith that what is said is true.
However, there is another trap here, since in some cases the actions of another person can easily confuse us and leave us in a perpetual disorientation. In what way? When they send us signals about something we think they want and we misinterpret them, causing misunderstandings or serious mistakes.
It is therefore important to take the time to observe and analyze the body language of the other person and be sure to be able to understand those signals that transmits us and In this article we will show you which of these signals indicate that this person wants something more serious with you..
Why do people only look for signs in others?
There is a certain mystery that attracts us strongly when trying to find out if a person wants to be with us, an attraction that increases if that person does not express their feelings directly, but sends us 'signals' to try to discover and decipher their intentions. It is like a game of secrets where we are the detectives.
This may be because people feel much more comfortable conveying their emotions through actions than through their words. Either because they avoid being judged or rejected, or because they also feel addicted to maintaining that constant interest in the other person, or because they really do not know how to express themselves.
The problem lies when we misinterpret those signals sent and everything ends up becoming a big disaster. and everything ends up turning into a big disaster. This can happen when we jump to conclusions about the meaning of a certain action of the person, which we consider special and unique for us. But in reality it is not so.
Signs of a true commitment
Nowadays, relationships have acquired a different meaning thanks to the acceptance and more open-mindedness of people towards the desires of others. That is why it is now possible to have a causal relationship or live with a person before marriage, without being singled out or judged.
This has given us the opportunity to get to know our partner in depth and evaluate the possibilities of a future together, without the pressure of a formal commitment.without the pressure of a formal commitment. However, it has also provided an escape route misused by some to, in a certain way, deceive a person, promising a commitment that never comes or avoiding at all costs but without letting their partner know.
That is why a large majority of the population instead of talking about it, prefer to send signals to that other person to 'communicate' their intentions to go a step further in the relationship. From establishing the relationship in a public way to formalizing it with a move, a marriage or the opportunity to have a family.
Signs that this person wants something more with you.
But how can we discover and read these signs? Here we will give you some tips on the actions of that person for you to keep in mind.
1. Show more dedication
Whether you are dating or already in a relationship but not yet formalized, your partner begins to devote more time and space to you, messages become long calls, visits become more regular and outings become more diverse.But above all, he or she starts to care about your day-to-day life, what bothers you or the things that can make you happy and tries to emulate them for you.
2. There is more communication
It tends to happen at the beginning of relationships that there is not a good communication channel between the couple. Either because they are afraid of upsetting the other, because they believe that what they have to say is not important or because they believe that they will not be able to express themselves well.
So the first conversations are banal and superficial, but then they turn into talks about then turn into talks about personal space, confessions about fears and small details that are important to the other person and that are important to them. that are important to each other and that they want to share.
3. There is greater trust
What we have just mentioned occurs because there is a higher level of trust between the two of them. a higher level of trust begins to exist between the two of them.. You can notice this in particular if your partner or that special person you are dating is reserved and shy in sharing personal things or telling you about their problems, but now they are a little more open, they tell you about their day to day life, share funny anecdotes from their past or seek advice about a particular problem.
Remember that it's not just about getting to know your partner's perfect, happy side, but also about their concerns and what bothers them. So that you can become his or her refuge and he or she will look to you for motivation.
4. Makes you a priority
Maybe at the beginning of a relationship or at the time of courtship and dating, your partner does not exactly show that you are a very significant person for him. In the sense that, he may choose an outing with his friends rather than going on a date with you or have a lot of trouble including you in his schedule.
That's exactly why, when you start to notice that he spends more time with you, asks you what days you have off, asks you out spontaneously, and looks for ways to please you. and looks for certain ways to please you. Then he is making you his priority.
5. Makes the relationship more public
It happens in many couples, especially before they establish a relationship and show it to the public, that people prefer to keep their outings in public. people prefer to keep their outings a secret or not show affection in front of other people. It is normal that this can generate doubts and even feelings of sadness, since one of the parties involved may believe that their feelings are not reciprocated.
But, your love may begin to manifest his or her feelings more publicly through gestures, such as holding your hand, giving you more hugs, sitting next to you, taking the initiative in writing to you, and so on. Until there comes a time when he admits to others about his intentions with you or the nature of your relationship.
6. Talks to you about it
He will most likely not tell you directly about his intentions to move the relationship forward or formalize it, but he may start asking you questions about his intentions.but he may start asking you questions about it. About your views on commitment, what you expect in your partner or what a more serious and stable relationship is like for you.
It is very important that you always speak honestly, that way the other person can be clear about your position and you will know if your relationship has a future or if it is just a passing thing.
7. He/she is more interested in your things
As already mentioned, it not only shows an interest in your more cheerful and superficially attractive appearance. But it begins to show special attention to the problems of your daily life and how he can help you solve them, as well as to your flaws or your performance in other areas of your life. and how he can help you solve it, as well as your flaws or your performance in the rest of the areas of your life, such as your professionalism, the dreams you want to pursue, the things that make you happy, etc.
8. Seeks you out by any means
No matter how busy you both are, your special someone will find a way to see you or maintain ongoing communication with you, so that you can be together as well.so that you can be together even remotely. This especially shows that your loved one wants to have a more committed relationship with you.
9. Asks you to share more
He or she may start visiting you more often, invite you to family get-togethers or if you are already in a relationshipHe or she may invite you to stay at his or her home for longer and longer periods of time. This gives them the opportunity to get to know each other better and evaluate how they are getting along. So you can see whether or not a greater commitment is possible.
10. Start using more meaningful words
While that person may be reserved in expressing his or her feelings to you or in talking about a more formal stability in your relationship, you can start using more loving words, may begin to use more loving words like 'I adore you, I love you, I love you, I love you' or call you by a pseudonym. or call you by affectionate pseudonyms. This shows that there is trust between the two of you and a lot of affection that you don't have with anyone else.
11. Introduces you to your social circle
This is a very important point to which you should pay close attention to determine if your partner wants something more serious with you. Introducing you to their circle of friends, inviting you to family gatherings, wanting to meet your loved ones and blending in very well with the environment or making an effort to make you feel comfortable in theirs. This is a great sign that he sees you as someone to maintain a formal and stable love relationship with, because he considers you important to him.
12. He is more interested in the future
Again, he may not express it or stop to talk to you about his future plans with you, but he may initiate talks about what he would like your relationship to be like in a few years, what he hopes to achieve, his approach to commitment, and about what he wants you to do with him.His position on commitment and above all he will be looking for your opinion on the matter.
Again, at this point be completely honest and ask some simple but not too direct questions about whether you see yourselves together in the future. You can even joke about it and observe his reactions.
Pay close attention to these signs from now on so you know which way your relationship is going.